Mental Health

Self-Care Valentine’s Day Gifts To Treat Yourself With

Valentine’s Day is mostly about showing your love for others, but there’s no reason why you can’t show love for yourself too! Whether you’re single or not, here are some self-care Valentine’s Day gifts to treat yourself with from sweet treats, jewellery, and gift sets.

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Self-Care Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

1. Chocolate

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A box of chocolate may be the most generic Valentine’s Day present ever but it’s good for your soul! (Dark) Chocolate has mood boosting and other positive benefits so treat yourself!

2. Celebrate Your Wins Journal

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I don’t know about you, but I find it hard to celebrate my wins, and I’d imagine physically writing them down would help. This notebook is a great way to keep track of the things your proud of, and you can revisit it when you’re feeling down to remind yourself of how far you’ve come!

Check out this Celebrate Your Wins Journal.

3. A Home Spa Day

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A lot of people feel down in the dumps on Valentine’s Day, and it can be a crappy reminder if you’re lonely which is even more of a reason to be kind and treat yourself to a self-care Valentine’s Day gift.

Pamper yourself with a DIY spa day instead. Grab some scented tea lightsessential oil put on some relaxing music a face mask (not these facemasks!) and a glass of wine!

4. A Dream Journal

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It’s good to take a few minutes in the morning to take a breather, before beginning a busy day! Which is why a dream journal is a great self-love and self-care Valentine’s Day present.

For me, a huge red flag that I need to start paying attention to my mental health is when I start getting sleep paralysis and nightmares often, so it also acts as a handy way to notice any patterns.

Check out this dream journal.

5. Marble Tea Light Holder

This would go great with your DIY spa day and for winding down in general. This stunning black marble tealight holder matches almost any aesthetic and brings some warmth and comfort into your room, but if you don’t like the black one there’s also a sandy onyx one and a quirky fossil version.

Pick it up here!

6. Green Tiger Eye Bracelet

Green Tiger eye represents finding the courage to move forward and strength (which is pretty needed in this current climate), and there’s the added benefit with the lava stones for some essential oil.

If you don’t like tiger eye then maybe the brown tigers eye version might be for you.

Pick it up here!

7. Moon & Star Necklace

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As a reminder to reach for the stars why not treat yourself to this stunning star and lava stone necklace! You deserve it.

Pick it up here!

8. Apple Of My Eye Necklace

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They say your significant other is the apple of your eye, but you should love yourself too!

Pick it up here!

9. Manifestation Journal

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Manifestation isn’t just wishing on a star! It’s about gratitude and setting forth intentions. You have to work for what you want, but it doesn’t hurt to put it out into the universe either.

I find manifestation is good for my wellbeing, because it teaches you to believe that you are capable of creating the life of your dreams. As I mentioned earlier, it also involves practising gratitude which is definitely good for the soul too.

Check out this manifestation journal.

10. Skincare Set

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Nothing screams self care like a good skincare regime. This skincare set comes with rose mist beauty old, a scrub, a lip balm and a balm & cloth combo to leave your skin glowing and papmered. It’s green, cruelty-free, and vegan!

Pick it up here!

11. Volcanic Potpourri

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If you don’t like candles but do want your space to smell heavenly then feast your eyes on this volcanic potpourri. I have one and I love it.

I own one of these and it is gorgeous! The best part is that you can use any essential oil you want to customize the scent of the room as the lava rocks absorb the oil and the obsidian shields against negativity. It looks so elegant, and goes with all styles!

Pick it up here!

12. A Good Book

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They say a reader lives a thousand lives so, given the circumstances pick out a good book (maybe a book log too!), make a cup of tea and get reading! If you’re not sure where to start then you might like one of these vampire books, zombie books, Disney books, or books about magic!

If you like poetry, you might enjoy my book: From The Brighter Side of 25.

13. A Takeaway

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Ordering pizza isn’t exactly a “healthy” self-care gift to yourself for Valentine’s Day but like I said with the chocolate, treat yourself self!

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So there we have it, 13 self-care Valentine’s Day gifts to treat yourself (or a loved one) with! You might also like these green Valentine’s Day gift ideas.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

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